
How Long Should Cocktail Hour Be?
Sixty minutes is the default. Stretch to 75 or 90 when portraits or travel need the buffer. Two hours is rarely worth it.
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Sixty minutes is the default. Stretch to 75 or 90 when portraits or travel need the buffer. Two hours is rarely worth it.

A traditional processional, who escorts the mother of the bride, who walks the groom in, and how smaller or same-sex weddings change the line.

Fingertip, chapel, cathedral, and royal lengths change the aisle and the photos. A veil is optional. Match it to the gown and the walk.

Mail save-the-dates 6 to 8 months ahead, or 8 to 12 for a destination. Invitations follow about 6 to 8 weeks before the day.

Pop the champagne—you’re engaged! Cue the happy tears, the giddy smiles, and maybe a little bit of frantic internal screaming. It’s an amazing moment, right? You’ve found your person, and now you get to plan a party to celebrate! But after the initial excitement, a wave of “Now what?” can definitely wash over you. Don’t worry, friend! You’re not alone.

You've just received an invitation to your best friend's bridal shower, and now you're faced with the age-old question: what should I wear? Choosing the perfect outfit for a bridal shower can be daunting, as you want to look stylish and feel confident while still being appropriate for the occasion. The key is to consider the event's location, time of day, and any specific themes or dress codes mentioned in the invitation.