The moment you have been waiting for: You have met the one, and you can already hear wedding bells ringing in the distance. Before you dash off to find the perfect venue or dream up a Pinterest-worthy proposal, let us pump the brakes and have some real talk about self-reflection. It is like looking at your reflection before stepping out the door—except this time, the mirror shows your emotional, financial, and relationship-readiness, not just if your outfit's on point.